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Friday, September 18, 2009

 

近來跟栢權談多了  , 也想多了

跟璟欣嬉笑間,發現晏仔同張俊真係好好, 好好

如果肯欣賞人, 就會少少事都感到驚訝, 佩服

欣賞人的好。

 

老了, 過往的片段總是襲來,

孩提的, 幼年的, 小學的, 中一的, 中二的, 中三的,

一切一切, 只是些說不上重要的事,

或許只有我強烈感覺到的小事,

原來原有的, 都是我擁有而沒有的。

暑假做的SBA, 分析中國人的愛情觀,

做完後萬千感想寫不盡,

海說: [ 以前的中國人根本沒有愛情可言 ]

是的, 我得認同, 但基於此又諳出戀曲的話,

在這裏,我要提及一個唐代的故事,
唐代的麥愛新看到妻子年老色衰,
便產生了棄妻納妾的念頭,並寫了一副上聯放在案頭:
**「荷敗蓮殘, 落葉歸根成老藕。」**
妻子看到後明白到棄老納新的念頭,
是便寫了一副下聯:
**「禾黃稻熟, 吹糠見米現新糧。」**
麥愛新讀了妻子的下聯, 被妻子的才思敏捷和愛心打動,
放棄了棄舊納新的念頭
妻子見丈夫回心轉意, 不忘舊情, 寫道:
**「老公十分公道。」**
麥愛新也寫下了聯:
**「老婆一片婆心。」**
這個帶有教育意義的故事很快被流傳開來, 世代傳為佳話,

「老公」「老婆」最早的出處源自於此,

但是, 我們要看到的, 不只這些。

 

鄙視那些把老公老婆掛在唇邊的小娃兒

 

近來很多很多的想法, 只想隱若帶出,

晏仔: [ 講得太白就冇意思啦 ]

 

前排係xg引用左王國維的三句詞,

林sir上堂竟然寫左出黎, 中文果然你估唔到估你唔到

下次可能在某時某刻某地,再次看到這則故事,

就該想想第一次看到時的感想.

栢權說這像時光的問題,

但今年的你勸說十年後的自己不要改變, 是因為不想作改變,

十年後的你看到十年前的自己的勸說,

才會發現原來改變是無可避免的, 當初自己才會幹這樣的傻勁兒,

但不緊要,

這是美好的, 是你將來的養份

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